Date Whoever the Hell You Want To.

Happy Schmalentine’s Day! (Almost.) The worst holiday of the year is coming up on Friday. I hated it when I was single and feeling badly about it (most of my life), and I’m proud to stay I still hate it even though I am married now. I feel like a lot of holidays aren’t much…… Continue reading Date Whoever the Hell You Want To.

First Comes Baby, Then Comes Marriage

Once upon a time, there was a girl who spent untold hours at a meditation retreat visualizing every detail of her future storybook wedding. That was me, in 2007, at my first silent Vipassana retreat. A lot can change in six years. Compared to the birth of a newborn child, matrimonial ceremonies are a bit…… Continue reading First Comes Baby, Then Comes Marriage